The Unspoken Taboos of Pleasure: A Cultural Hangover The recent exchange in Slate's "How to Do It" column between Jessica and a reader, Chill Out, has shed light on a deeply ingrained cultural phenomenon: the guilt surrounding personal pleasure.
Chill Out, a cis queer woman, shared her struggles with masturbation, feeling like she needs to "earn" it or justify its frequency.
This sentiment is not unique to her; many people have internalized similar messages about indulging in pleasure.